I am reading “Public Parts” by Jeff Jarvis. Public Parts encourages us to embrace publicness and reject privacy, and with good justification. I’m glad to be reading this book.
I talk about privacy a lot because it’s a concern of mine. But, when I was younger I used to enjoy living my life in a public way. I used to embrace the internet a lot more than I do now. And so, I realised by reading the book what irritates me about publicness today. Here it is: when I do give away private information to a commercial entity, it’s sold to the highest bidding advertiser (perhaps brazenly so, by auction), whereas I hardly ever feel it adds any significant value for me.
I really don’t think I get the value that I deserve for that private information – the commercial entity takes away all of the value of that information. I look upon that very negatively.
Today I realised that I’d like to be part of a movement to change that default way.
I am helping my sister for her exams, as her needs relate to my regular job. I try to treat my sister as a regular client. So, I try to insist that we behave as though we were in a professional relationship, just for the periods that I’m teaching her.
My sister doesn’t fully understand the importance of this, I think. She checks her phone while we talk, and gets distracted easily. And then, I push my sister harder than I would push a regular client. This is bad of me: since I deliberately push my regular clients exactly as hard as they can deal with successfully. So, I’m not sticking to my end of the bargain either.
This is a hard job, but I am learning how to improve.
My taste in music has changed since the 1990s. Or, perhaps it hasn’t, but I no longer have the time or inclination to seek out independent and creative music that I love. So, now I’m much more likely to listen to the same music as everyone else. This got much worse while I lived with a record company employee: I was surprised that she was quite intolerant of music she didn’t favour, and I felt uncomfortable listening to music that I liked but she did not. Hopefully I’ll discover more music again now.
I have to admit that I really like Adele. Her music is clever, thoughtful and musical. I might buy her album. This answers your question: “Who is still buying Adele’s album such that it’s still number 1?”
The weather in London is still marvellous. I loved cycling through Hyde Park today.
